dogbiscuit wrote:What really drives people mad is the uncaring attitude when people run into trouble.
There was something in the middlebrow press quite recently about the biological or genetic basis of cults. Humans bond into a group very quickly and naturally - artificially designate them as a group and they will become a group. We have all seen this (e.g. horrible 'awaydays' - you go, hating the idea of it, get sucked in for the time it takes, and almost come to love the people in whatever group you have been stuck in - then return and forget about it straight away).
There was a study mentioned about people who leave the group, and how in an experiment certain members named large sums of money that they would pay to humiliate and hurt the 'traitors'. This is all part of the biology, supposedly.
I never saw myself as part of the WP 'community'. I wonder if this is more a problem with older people. I am very comfortable with the real-life group or sector of society I belong to. I don't have that anxiousness about who I am, where I ought to live, what my personal identity is. I completely identify with that group, which is nothing to do with Wikipedia. Indeed I would be
embarrassed if anyone knew I was involved with Wikipedia at all.
With the younger members I am not so sure. It seems like it's part of their identity as 'Wikipedians' in some way.
Another thought: to be a Wikipedian it's not enough to do all the things that Wikipedians do. You actually have to
admit to being a 'Wikipedian'. Perhaps there should be a sort of ceremony where Wikipedians swear an oath of allegiance with humble manner and solemn demeanour.
[edit - perhaps something like this
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reichswehreid - ooopsie]