Vigilant wrote: ↑Mon Apr 22, 2024 10:59 pm
Even worse, about shit that's none of their god damned business.
Well thats the problem. It is indeed, not anyone else's business in the vast majority of cases. The problems are where it very much becomes someone else's business is where it puts someone else at risk of harm. And yes, this is a small amount in the grand scheme of things.
The issue that set Rowling off is a very real and unfortunately serious one (and a personal one for her). Biological women who are at risk from abuse by biological men. The vast majority of trans women (particularly the politically active), they dont consider the biological aspect a problem. Because most of the time it isnt. Except on the rare occasions when it is, it does actual real world physical and mental harm to biological women. So they fear biological men. They dont fear trans people, they fear someone who looks like a woman (and not even 'looks like' is necessary under the attempted Scots laws - self identification) assaulting them in a space they previously considered safe from biological men - and by extension abuse/assault.
That is realistically not an easily solveable problem by legislation. You cant wave your hand and say "I'm a woman too, you dont need to fear me" - thats not how fear and people who have been abused think. And when you force them to, what you are saying is "your very real fears do not matter".
Now add on TOP of that, the issue with lesbians and their pushback against being made to feel ashamed/guilty for not wanting to have relationships with trans women, and we have now reached a point where the trans women community in the UK, particularly in Scotland, is alienated from LGBT groups, women's support groups etc etc.
Eventually I do forsee a point where the straight biological man has to pick a side, and I honestly dont think its going to be the trans-women's one. Pretty much every single biological man in existence knows what it is like to be feared by a woman you dont know, just because of your sex. Every man who has been out late at night and walking peacefully home has seen a woman cross over/speed up because they fear you. And we all understand that while personally its an unjustified fear, its not an irrational one for the woman concerned. There is a risk they are not willing to leave unmitigated because the consequences are too great if they choose wrong. So the more intelligent of us can at least understand the fear, which trans-women (the visible activist ones anyway) have so far not shown any indication they do.
And if you cant even understand the motivation of your opponent, you are not likely to win the fight in the long run without a lot of harm to both sides.